Having post partum anxiety? This will help

How To Know If You're Having Post Partum Anxiety

Many women experience post partum anxiety after giving birth for many reasons. Women who are sensitive are highly at risk for this after affect of birth. Hormones will be out of wack for the first three months after you're fresh from the delivery room and some women experience it longer. It all depends on your overall life at the end of the day.

After giving birth, it had hit me hard that my fun times would be on hold for a good little while. I was happy to have her out of my stomach, now it was mommy time. It just felt so funny, I thought I couldn't have kids and I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. It's true, I tried to start early when I wasn't nowhere near ready so I thank god he held it off.

I was overwhelmed with the responsibilities I now had as a new mom and I immediately dreaded having to stay home all the time. Not that I didn't want my baby but my whole pregnancy plus after I gave birth I would not be having any fun no time soon. I knew I was getting post partum anxiety because I would get this rush in my body whenever I thought about how fun it would be to enjoy the weather and then my birthday came and I couldn't even enjoy it like I would have if I didn't have a child. I  enjoy her but I do miss the outdoors. I felt like I needed a little bit of freedom and fast.

Having a child is bitter sweet because you would see the beautiful creation you made and you will love her/him unconditionally but the emotions from the hormones and the new mommy symptoms will weigh you down. Not all people will be at home all day after giving birth but that is what I typical person would do and I was the typical. You will want to go out but it just won't be as easy as it was when it was just about you. Now you have to grind even harder since you have a baby.

Take a walk everyday after giving birth to avoid depression or any other common symptoms after giving birth.

Stay active as much as you can.

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Meaningless Sex: Stop Now While You Can!

Meaningless sex is the worst. It's all cool and dandy when you're naive and immature but as you get older, you start to know what you want and those days or nights you engage in sexual activity means nothing if you don't love that person, vice versa. Let's be real, many people who are having sex have had some sex with people that weren't really emotionally involved with them.

Sex is a gateway to many things such as pregnancy, infections and weird relationships. Some people are so opened to generic sex that they will be in an open relationship with many people which is gross to me. If you're going to have sex then do it with one person only. Not everyone are cautious about sex acts as a teen. It's probably half and half.

I have had meaningless sex before. It was good for the moment of course. I was young and being dumb just like the typical young teen in their high school days. No one is perfect, we all know that. Sex is the main thing in life we make mistakes in. It is probably the ultimate number one thing.

I'm just happy I didn't get pregnant when I was in these immature stages. That would have really been terrible. I thank god that he let me know two things. One: It was too early for me to have kids. Two: I could have kids and now I know what it is like because I have my own daughter. I am now 21 and still mature. I was always mature but I still had some kid in me back then. My view on life is much better and I have learned so much.

Suffering from meaningless sex and don't know how to get out? We've all been there. Just stop now if you can and be smart about your future actions in this activity. Please feel free to ask me anything far as tips, advice or anything else.